>>250703 (OP)
Honesty is a good policy, you stupid fuck. But there are ways to express yourself honestly and being a wimp, bleeding heart, whiny, etc. isn't "honesty." It's just you shamelessly indulging and displaying your weaknesses. You need to toughen up mentally, solve your problems calmly, stand up for your dignity in a calm, mature way, and stop acting like a moody little shit or treating conversations as invitations to overshare personal feelings and crap. You're not a woman. If you cry and vent on someone's shoulder they typically won't support you or be your therapist like they would for many a woman. They just look at you in disgust as a manchild who has failed to grow up and develop personal strength and accountability.