>>324224 (OP)
>...but it's probably the best shot I got since there's no way I'll tell her myself
You weren't ready at that point. probably dodged a bullet anyway.
If there's one thing I know about women, it's that they are attracted to confidence and yours was not there yet.
t. I have been "B" before, and it wasn't good. For me or "(you)guy"
>2rd story
Ah shit man.. that sucks. You did the right thing.
Digital Hoeflation is a fucking curse on humanity, and you can't solely blame women.
Things to Remember:
<Women will always act in their own interest, even if outward appearances say they are "Helping out others"-yes, even your MOM
<As "The MAIN character in the MOVIE" everything runs through that filter first; NO EXCEPTIONS
< Never explain yourself to a woman; not only will they invariably get the story wrong,(That filter again,) but they will use it's parts to try to pick apart your reasoning with their own "I WANT" emotionalism.
<Nothing drives a woman crazier than non-reactivity to her attempts at drawing attention..whether physical, or verbal.
The quickest (unintended) pick-up I ever had was a slow night at the local "townies bar" at a college town.
>I was short shifted at work, and walked into a sausage fest at the bar.
>6 guys filling the 8 barstools and a few in the back in the billiards room.
>I got my drink and and took stool #7 farthest from the door.
>Fucking hottie, 8/10 walks in
>every guy at the bar turns to look
>the thirst is palpable, instant attention grab, several guys offer to buy her a drink at once
>I got up and went into the pool room
>"fuck man, I don't wanna deal with this shit tonight... I'll just finish this and go ho..."
>I look up and she's followed me back there
>Oh shit! Now what?
>she smiles and asks me a few questions about my fucking Astrology sign--fucking women-- and says:
>how about we get out of here?
>uhh.. Sure.
>go back to her place, there's a new RV in the driveway that she says she wants to "Christen"
>bizarrely going through the motions sex ensues, there just isn't any "Feeling" there at all, and pretty as she is, she's just BORING sexually
>Awkwardly get dressed and go home, head reeling from what just took place, ALL in less than an hour
>find out later that she was on a mission for "Get Even" sex from boyfriend
>Boyfriend is a 6'2" biker dude known to crack skulls
>MFW
Women are fucking Reckless when it comes to who gets hurt.
I worried for 3 weeks that I was going to get jumped because an old, FAT co-worker of mine who was at the bar that night lusted after her and absolutely WOULD go tattling to the Biker dude.
nothing ever happened though, and the whole thing just re-enforced my understanding that the hotter the gal, the shittier in bed,(usually), and the crazier they are.
I don't think you should hate them. Just know what they are, and how they operate. They are programmable and if there was a strong father in their lives, they can be wonderful.(mostly)